Sunday, June 10, 2012


A laazy Sunday afternoon, the rain drops are falling on my window panes. The sky is colored in shades of blue and violet simultaneously. Well who wouldn't enjoy waking up today and being alive just to witness the magic of nature. Well today i would like to share a few lines from the movie i watched sometime back. The Holiday. It is quite well known amongst people who google 'movies to watch after a bad breakup'. Anyways i watched it and somehow kate winslet makes me feel like im her.. in the movie that is. I'm wondering how long it will take me to move on. Counting days... well here are a few lines from the movie which remained with me thus putting it up on my blog.

I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible, and how it can actually ache in places you didn't know you had inside you, and it doesn't matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends... you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong, or how you could have misunderstood, and how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he'll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you'll go somewhere new, and you'll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again, and little pieces of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade.

Monday, June 4, 2012

Benefits of being single

1. Girls all around me who are in a relationship have only one ambition in life i.e is to get married. Single women are more career oriented. Have some ambition in life to be equal to a man. Like get stuff on their own without monetary or any other kind of help from their husbands.
2. Single women can wear whatever they want. No restrictions of clothes no more restrictions on what boyfies consider obscene.
3. Eat a lot of chocolates, no one to comment on eating habits of any kind. Vegetarian boyfriends always force girlfriends to turn veg. How many guys ever turned vegetarian for girl i ask?
4. No more jealousy , no more insecurity, no more crying spells. Less emotional drama.
5. SAve money, no expenditure on buying gifts for the boyfie, or on dinners or movies, All the money saved can be spent of buying clothes and being fabulous.
6. Having more time since there is no object to be obsessed about. This time can be used to pursue a new hobby. Music class, dance ,craft , DIY's anything at all.
7. Flirt with all the cuties out there, no guilt of being committed.
8. The joy of being with oneself :) is so amazing , As they say it is necessary to loose yourself to find the real you.
9. Being single makes us feel the need to take care of ourselves more, more pedicures, more spa treatments , luxurious facials :P feels fabulous.
10. After being single for so long now, i have understood one thing i might cry at times, i might be sad at times. But being single is definitely better than being stuck in a disastrous relationship.
11. Also this time gives you an amazing opportunity to stop being spineless. Stand on you own two feet and stop letting some rude boys define who you are. There are so many bad men out there. But once in a while some nice ones might appear. :)